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BTW, it takes no time at all to make acquaintances, but it takes a good deal of time, and work, to develop a friendship.
Yet, when I try to arrange platonic buddy activities, I get really pushy sex offers. Men seem determined to frustrate me at every turn.
I only have one legit gay friend and one lesbian friend. So really no gay friends. I have a lesbian sister, but she live 4 states away. I had one true Gay friend who was like a blood brother to me, but he passed away suddenly and way too young. They all want to have sex.
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Then he responded to me one day. Sorry, dude. Most of my close gay friends are guys I have had sex with one time, and only once. And thereafter we became great friends without another word being spoken about having sex — except with other guys. I live right outside of NYC. I was seeing someone recently and he was very well connected with a strong group of friends. I found this incredibly intimidating since he constantly wanted to bring me around to them, whether they be his city friends, local friends, or college friends. Reading comments and advice has been great.
I want that strong group of people. Some of them it was a struggle, because they thought that all gay men wanted to be with them. Many of them felt that way because, most of the gay men they met had ulterior motives. I respect them and they respect me. Many of my straight friends tend to be over protective at times, but there is nothing sexual between us. It is easy to make friends as longs as the boundaries are clearly set.
How can I make gay friends without having sex with them? man wonders / Queerty
Please log in to add your comment Need an account? Search for: Get Queerty Daily Subscribe to Queerty for a daily dose of life advice dating stories and more. Renone Good suggestions! Renone Thanks.
CJones01 Going to a bar during trivia night might be a good way to start. Heywood Jablowme Excellent points. Blackceo Ahhh the age old question. CodyJ WOW…..
Danny When we build a culture based upon pervasive and long-term promiscuity, this is where we end up. Heywood Jablowme I like a lot of the suggestions here. Straight Boy 3: But what I can say is that this was the most fascinating of the straight boy encounters.
Out of the three, this guy was actually for real straight. He just got super turned on by being desired. Regardless of the gender, he enjoyed people wanting him. The first time we hooked up, it was super porn fantasy and fun.
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The second time, however, I stopped it halfway through because I was over it. This put the nail in my straight boy coffin. After this, I said never no more to straight dudes. Really wonder what you want from this straight guy. Closeted gays are just too cray cray. Good luck in making your sexy decision! Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you.
All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. I'm going to need live action re-enactments of those encounters. Maybe not the last one because emotional torture porn ThoughtCatalog can get a youtube account, right?
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I grant that he might not be a gay guy, but a straight guy? And I guess it is kind of disingenuous to attach absolute meanings to a discursive framework so steeped in conventional religious orthodoxy gay, straight. Binaries rarely, if ever, exist, I get that. They are typically manufactured to enforce moral, political, or social normative behaviors, yes, I understand. I'm just saying, a straight guy who hooks up with gay dudes has got a little wider range of sexual predilection than a truly 'straight' guy, if we are going to use the meaning of the word, which I think at some level you would have to do.
Was it easy? My god, absolutely not. As the one who wasn't exactly keen on cutting things off cold turkey, it took some extra time to be accustomed to hanging out fully dressed. After a few months, things became more casual, and any prior thoughts I had or hoped for dissipated. As he became someone who I began to envision as more of a best friend than a boyfriend, I accepted it for what it was and made that shit work. Well, you should. Gossip spreads fast, my friends.
And if you're like me, you'll agree it's never fun to be at the center of it. Sometimes, it's natural to apply your dating standards to anyone in your life, but developing a bond with someone who isn't necessarily your sexual cup of tea may make you less likely to want to shack up with them.